The Long Middle
Notes from the middle of a life

Twenty minutes on a Sunday

We started sitting on the back step for twenty minutes before anything else happens. That is the whole thing. That is the whole post.

The note on my side of the bed

My husband has written me two things in twenty-six years and one of them was a Christmas card that said "you too." So I sat on the edge of the bed with this one for a while.

I stopped apologizing for the house

For years the first sentence out of my mouth when anyone came over was an apology. I have quit. Here is what happened instead.

My mother's handwriting

I found her recipe cards in a shoebox in the basement. I did not expect the handwriting to be the part that got me.